When a loved one has a substance abuse problem, family members suffer too. Instead of helping and protecting the addict, you may wind up encouraging his or her behavior.

• Have you tried to shield your loved one from the consequences of his or her actions?
• Do you blame yourself for his or her drug or alcohol problem?
• Have you avoided social situations for fear of being embarrassed?
• Have you tried and failed to convince your loved one to change?
• Do you make excuses for his or her behavior and lie to others about it?
• Have you gone out of your way to pay his or her delinquent bills or bailed him/her out of jail?
• Have you threatened to leave, but keep backing down?

If you answered "yes" to two or more of these questions, you may be in denial about the situation. Remember that addiction is a family disease, and there's nothing wrong with admitting it.

At Belmont Behavioral Health, we can help you get your life back together and find ways to get your addicted family member on the road to recovery. Through group therapy and self-help meetings, you can openly discuss the situation with others who are struggling with similar problems. Rediscover your self-esteem and lose your sense of helplessness.

Don't let the substance abuse bring you down too.

Call Belmont Behavioral Health at 1-800-EINSTEIN or (215) 877-2000.